Free NLP Tip 34 - The meaning of communication is the response you elicit
August 15, 2008
Free NLP Tip 33 Non Verbal Rapport Building
A good magician never reveals his tricks!
For me the real power of some of the NLP processes are in fact the (more…)
August 10, 2008
NLP Tip 32 - Acceptance is the WD40 of Change
Free NLP Tip 31 - The Map is not the Territory
Many thanks for your continuing support, this week I thought I’d share a question and response that came up for a subscriber in the USA, all feedback is useful and welcome!
“…..Anyway, yes, some of what you say makes sense. Here’s the part that I’m not sure that I quite get yet:
“Sometimes people fear the reconnection because the feelings are unfamiliar and therefore coded as bad or dangerous (not always but seemingly often) and by avoiding that behavior / feeling they’re deleting much more of their experience that they’re aware of - not just the unusual response but everything including resources that are anchored / attached to it.”
So, I’m wondering if you could elaborate just a bit more on that (I’d be ever so grateful), just to confirm that I’m understanding what you’re saying. For instance, an example of what you are describing might be helpful for me.” (more…)
July 18, 2008
NLP TIP 30 Choice is better than no choice
July 4, 2008
Free NLP TIP 28, The small stuff!
June 30, 2008
NLP Tip 27
“Patterns of the Hypnotic Techniques of Milton H Erickson, M.D. By Richard Bandler and John Grinder is a delightful simplification of the infinite complexities of the language I use with patients. In reading this book, I learned a great deal about the things that I’ve done without knowing about them” – Milton H Erickson M.D.
All behavior is patterned
As a child you learned by watching what the big people did, if they did it once, it was just something that happened, if they did it twice you’d notice (and later on with linguistic maps you’d call this a coincidence), and if they did it 3 times it is a pattern, so you would engage your curiosity (more…)
June 20, 2008
Free NLP Tip 26 - Language Part 2
“I want to feel Energised and confident”
When do you want this?”
” All the time “
” All the time ? Even when you’re trying to get to sleep?”
“Well, Er, No, not all the time … . …. . . . .. . “
June 19, 2008
Wake up feeling Refreshed, Rested and on Time.
This techinques takes advantage of our natural ability to take control of seemingly unconcious processes.
A strategy for waking up on time, feeling rested and ready for the day. (more…)
June 13, 2008
Free NLP Tip 25 - Language Part 1
“I eat chocolate because I’m a woman!”
Often people find themselves stuck, trapped by linguistic constructs that have no basis in REALITY but have been used for so long it’s like an automatic answering service. When they say A I say B without even thinking about it. So the next few week will be dedicated to language and how you can use it to give yourself more choices. We’ll start with one of my favorites with a name that seems more complex than it is. (more…)
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